We've decided

Jim and I have decided to go ahead with Max's "top surgery".  It's really the next step in making him feel authentic so he can fit into society.  Our hope is next year, SEE entry before this one to donate.  I know there will be many that think this is crazy, but we really feel that this will help Max not miss out on things "normal" teens to...aka...swimming, water parks, etc.  Also just being able to wear a regular Tshirt to school without having something underneath...or layers of clothes (in sunny and HOT Arizona). 

Busy Busy and NEW name

So we officially have a Max Andrew.  I can't believe we (ok I) was so stressed about court.  I don't know why I think that everyone outside my little bubble of accepting friends lurks the transgender haters and think they are out to get us.  BUT no, couldn't have been farther from the truth.  The judge quickly granted the name change without question.  I mean literally NO questions other than stating our names.  We had the GREATEST bunch of supporters with us during the hearing.  No one else in that courtroom had 15 spectators ...with most of them being the "BRO" energy!  So cheering be had by all after the grant was given. We are truly blessed to have found such a great group of supporters.  We followed the hearing with a party at our house which was also incredible with the support.  I'm so blessed, I can't thank these people enough for being such a huge support to not only Max but our whole family.

The other big news is that Max has agreed, bravely, to come out on TV.  He is being filmed for an ABC Nightline special on transgender youth.  So he has been followed around for his hearing, and his daily doings for two days.  Our hope with this documentary is to reach out....to those struggling, hiding and dealing with this alone.  The word has to get out, to educate so that our trans kids can live productive lives without having to endure years of torment within themselves. 

Mother's Day

This Mother's day falls on the day before Max's name change hearing.  I have to say, I'm so very proud to be his mother.  I'm sure he struggles within himself being trapped in a body that is not right to him.  He is going to tell his story soon, to help save others that are struggling.  To show that you CAN survive this.  Seek the support of others, even if it doesn't happen to be those closest to you.  This, although scares me to death, also makes me so completely proud to be his mother.  ONE more day and Makenzie is all in memories, and Max is here to grow and be the best he can be.