Shhh, I'm only telling this for one reason

Ok...forget your hearing this first part.  I'm going back to school!!  I'm telling few people, ok, I guess today I'm telling whoever bothers to ready my blogs.  BUT, it really only matters because of the paperwork.  So I'm filling out the application for ASU, and the FAFSA, and related paperwork, and WTF!  I know now why trans people have such an anxiety.  My gender seems to define me!  It is asked on everything and on alot of the paperwork it's RIGHT ON TOP!  As if my name doesn't define me my gender does.  ALL of this paperwork would not let you skip this answer.  So I had a talk with Max and Jim and we all decided changing the birth certificate to male now for school reasons would outweigh the issues we will have for insurance.  So, off to get the letter from the surgeon, luckily the only thing needed to change the birth certificate here in AZ.